How can I encourage and support my
missionary friends?
Developing realistic expectations of a missionary and his
ministry is a key way to start supporting him. World Venture
believes that ongoing personal development of its missionaries
is essential to the task of effective cross-cultural ministry.
This framework of ongoing personal development and care is
shaped by the multifaceted needs of missionaries - needs such as
financial, prayer, pastoral, spiritual, physical, continual
training/education, team building, family encouragement,
children's education. For cross-cultural workers, receiving
"member care" is essential not only from the mission but also
from those who partner with the workers in ministry. Development
and care should be ongoing, and should occur in both overseas
and stateside environments. The support and development of the
missionary is a commitment that spans his life cycleHow
can I help during times of political upheaval or natural
disaster?
Stay informed.
Volunteer to help if the need arises.
Pray and develop a team who will pray.
Be generous in your giving.
Don't insist on regular contact with your missionary but connect
with them through mwbm.org If missionaries have had to be
evacuated from crisis situations, provide a healing community.
If re-deployment is necessary, provide financial support, prayer
support, encouragement and input.
How can I help a missionary during time of personal crisis?
Provide a safe place to debrief and to seek prayer and emotional
support.
Be concerned and pray but don't pry.
Give the missionary emotional and physical space if needed.
Offer pastoral and member care when requested.
Continue to contribute financially or provide for emergencies
with one time gifts.
Write notes of encouragement are appreciated.
Partner with the sending agency to provide maximum care for the
missionary.
When your missionary is on home assignment, his family's
transition will be easier if you:
Befriend them.
Show interest in their ministry and overseas life.
Include them in social activities
Host a gathering for them to give ministry update or just to
introduce them to the church family.
Offer vacation possibilities.
Care for family needs like babysitting, loaning a car, providing
car maintenance, grocery shopping, and communication support.
Introduce the children to children their age.
Provide them with a cultural update on trends, US & local news
and fashions.
Provide them with orientation to the community like the grocery
store, hospital, and local schools.
15 THINGS EVERY MISSIONARY NEEDS
Specific guidelines to assist in praying for your missionary
Do you sometimes seem to "get stuck" when praying for
missionaries? Are you frustrated because your prayers seem
general or shallow? If so, here are some specific things you can
pray for when you are interceding for missionaries.
Love for God
Overworked missionaries can become service-oriented rather than
love-oriented. Pray that your missionaries' love for the Lord
will deepen, and that love for him will always be their prime
motivation for service.
Love for Others
Yes, missionaries are human, and just like you, sometimes they
have trouble showing love and respect to those "difficult to
love" people-either their missionary coworkers or nationals.
Pray that the Lord will make your missionaries' love "increase
and overflow for each other and for everyone else" (1
Thessalonians 3:12).
A Deeper Relationship with God
Missionaries' schedules can become so packed that they might
skip or skimp on their time with the Lord. Pray that your
missionaries would follow Jesus'
example. It's hard to imagine any missionary having a busier
life that he did, yet he consistently sought out time alone to
commune with his Father.
Spirit-Controlled Lives
Just like the rest of us, sometimes missionaries have a tendency
to do the Lord's work in their own energy and human ingenuity.
Pray that all of your missionaries' actions will be under the
control, and by the power of, the Holy Spirit.
The Fruit of the Spirit
As you pray that your missionaries will be under the control of
the Holy Spirit, pray that the fruit of the Spirit-the very
beauty of Jesus-will be manifest in their lives.
Wisdom and Knowledge
Strong-willed missionaries often come into conflict when two or
more of them have opposing viewpoints. Pray that missionaries
will have the wisdom of God, which James describes as "first of
all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of
mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere" (James 3:17).
Courage
Imagine your missionaries making the same prayer request Paul
did in Ephesians 6:19: "Pray also for me, that whenever I open
my mouth, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make
known the mystery of the gospel."
Receptive Hearts
Pray for divine providence, that the Lord will lead your
missionaries to people whose hearts will be open to hearing and
receiving the gospel message.
Disciples
Pray that your missionaries will experience the joy of leading
others to salvation, and of "teaching them to obey everything
[Christ] commanded"
(Matthew 28:20).
Strong Faith
The apostles once made a direct request of Jesus: "Increase our
faith!" Pray that your missionaries will have great faith that
will lead them to ask great things of our Lord.
Steadfastness
Pray that your missionaries will follow Paul's advice to the
Corinthians:
"Stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give fully to the work
of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not
in vain" (1 Corinthians 15:58).
Strong Family
Cross-cultural living can magnify even small family conflicts.
Pray that members of missionary families will be drawn together,
not torn apart, by living in a new culture.
Protection
Missionaries are prime targets of the enemy. Join Jesus in
praying to the
Father: "My prayer is not that you take them out of the world
but that you protect them from the evil one" (John 17:15).
Material Needs
Missionaries often face harsh living conditions, and may have to
struggle to meet basic physical needs. Pray that the Lord will
supply all their financial and material needs "according to his
glorious riches in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:19).
Health and Strength
In today's increasingly violent world, missionaries face not
only sickness, they may also be victims of crime, civil unrest
or political upheaval. Pray that the Lord will grant the measure
of health and strength that will bring his greatest glory and
the greatest good for the missionaries.
The next time you sit down to pray for your missionaries, use
this list as a guide to help you pray specifically. And pray for
your missionaries consistently. They need you, and the Lord
needs you to help fulfill his Great Commission. Your prayers
count!
THE CARE AND FEEDING OF MISSIONARY KIDS
MKs are kids whose dads and moms serve as cross cultural
missionaries. They are normal kids who are neither growing up
strictly in their parents'
culture nor are they growing up exclusively in the culture of
the country where they live. As a result, their lives are being
shaped by both their parents' culture and their host culture;
this forms a different, third culture. That's why MKs are often
called TCKs (Third Culture Kids). Are they normal? Certainly!
MKs grow up in extraordinary environments that impact their
lives - and we trust that they, too, will impact others for
Christ.
Build a relationship.
MKs are kids with a lot of adults in their lives. It's
unrealistic to expect them to know you when your involvement in
their lives is limited to once every five years. Be consistent
in communicating with them and their families. Visit them
overseas when you have a chance, exchange pictures, send the
Sunday comics, be involved.
Be informed.
Communicating with someone who makes an effort to know basic
facts about your life and your country is much more enjoyable
than talking with someone who merely makes assumptions. The more
informed you are, the better your questions and comments will
be. Learn more about TCKs and their world; they have a unique
set of experiences, skills and worldview.
Meet felt needs.
Getting to know MKs will help you know how best to help them in
ways that are meaningful to them. International calling cards, a
home away from home, a gift card, or a subscription to a
magazine especially for TCKs such as "Among Worlds" all make
great gifts for MKs.
Help them transition.
MK life is filled with transition. You can help make the
transitions easier.
Remember that coming to the States is probably not coming home
for them.
They are "constant immigrants" with the ability to make unique
contributions. As immigrants, they often find the "normal"
overwhelming and the "extraordinary" usual. Introduce them to
peers and mentors, serve as a liaison between the MK and their
new school. Give the MK room to observe and make decisions
before jumping in to an activity or a group.
Pray.
Pray for their health; their part in their parents' ministries;
their adjustments to new places, schools and ideas; their
spiritual and emotional growth.
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